Wednesday, November 7, 2012

The Break-Up Analysis



While all relationships can be difficult, romantic relationships seem to be some of the most complicated types.  Sometimes two people can care for one another so much, yet they cannot seem to communicate effectively.  When a lack of communication occurs between two people for a long period of time, it most likely will lead to a huge confrontation and possibly a complete dissolve of the relationship.  The Break-Up is a movie that shows how important interpersonal communication is in relationships.  The movie features Brooke and Gary, a couple which has been together for several years.  Although they seem to be arguing about something trivial like lemons, there are much bigger issues that begin to surface.  Throughout this paper I will show how this scene is a perfect display of how a combination of passive aggressive behavior, disconfirming messages, and a defensive and unsupportive communication climate led to a complete breakdown of this couple’s relationship.